How can something as straightforward as columns of numbers cause so much conflict when it's just simple arithmetic?

It's not simple anything. Money is tied up with our emotions in ways we don't even notice. Each of us has a built-in attitude toward money that controls the way we spend. It's as much a part of our outlook as a sense of humour, and it doesn't change.

In my work I see four common attitudes toward money. None of them is right or wrong, better or worse than the others, but each can lead to trouble if it's not balanced. Once you've identified your type, you can build financial plans that satisfy your deep inner need.

Check out the four basic types and see if you recognize yourself. You might be one type or a combination.

If you're not sure, How Much Is Enough? features a simple quiz that will identify your exact type and point out your danger zones. There's also advice on how to avoid conflict with someone who's a different type.